This report covers
the 5th mission and visits to Children's MERCY Center
between 02 July and 11 July 2010, including a trip to Chumchon
(the slum area), a day with Bo, general visits to the center,
and the shopping for food/supplies.
A big thank you to all
who supported this mission and especially to all who who contributed to its success.
The fundraiser was a new record, by a mile, with
USD4,740, plus THB5,000. USD640 was advanced to buy a trampoline,
leaving USD4,100 which was exchanged to THB130,544 for a total of
THB135,544 available to buy food and supplies for children at The MERCY
Center. Using THB32 to the USD the grand total (currency equivalent) was
USD4,896 or THB156,680. Please click here for detailed accounting of the
funds collected for mission 5 and the expenditures.
More so than any of the previous 4 fundraisers for
The Mercy Center,
this one proved that success does not come by a few who give liberally,
but by many sharing the efforts and collectively making a difference. This mission was made successful by more than 60 kind supporters from 14
countries in 5 continents.
As the fundraiser became more and more successful it was decided that
should we reach the threshold of USD4,000 we would use some of the funds
to buy a trampoline for the kids, which has been on their wish list for
quite some time but has been cost prohibitive. This time that wish was
granted.
I spent
three days with The MERCY Center attending to number of issues and
events, including the delivery of the trampoline, distribution of foods
to the slums (chumchon), lunch with the directors of the MERCY Center,
shopping for foods and supplies, tour of the center for some donors and
finally some time between my sponsored child (Bo) and I.
Delivery and inauguration of the
trampoline was the first event and one of the highlight of the mission. The funds (US$600) for the purchase of
the trampoline were forwarded
in advance so that The MERCY Center could order it and make to make sure it was
set up for an inaugural jump on the 4th of July. The setup was completed by 3PM ahead of schedule, however, throughout the morning it
looked much as if it could be a complete rainout. Around noon time it rained
so hard that I had to take a taxi from bank the back to the hotel, a
mere 200 meters or 1/8 of a mile. Thank goodness the rain stopped around
1:30PM and setup was completed by 3PM. I arrived at the center with my friend Pha just as the setup had been
completed. The anticipation was obviously high as
none of the kids had ever tried anything like this.
Before
the jumping could start it was time for a group photo in front of this
monstrosity. The trampoline measured a full 14 feet (4.7 meters) in
diameter. With
all the anticipation it wasn't the easiest thing to get them all focused
on the photo op at the same time, however, it eventually worked out.
It was decided that the smallest could go first followed by groups of
progressively older kids. One initial concern I had was the hazard that the trampoline might
pose on
the smallest kids. My friend Bo (four and a half) was the first one on and it was soon proven
that light body weight equals small jumps; while Bo along with the other
youngsters hardly managed to jump a foot and a half (1/2 meter) they had
the time of their life. A good 10 minutes later it was time for the next
group, then the next and finishing with the oldest. Once the oldest got
on the jumping got higher, but still 4 feet (1.2 meter) was as much as
they could manage. I think technique was the main limiting factor and
surely they will improve that as time goes on.. While all the kids will have countless hours of fun going forward, this
is really a good toy (or tool) for the older ones. At The MERCY Center
there seems to be a lack of physical activity for the older compared to
the younger kids.
Video of the Kids first Jumps
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More Trampoline Visits
As
I was visiting The MERCY Center later in the week I got to enjoy
watching the trampoline in use again. This not only included the
children doing the jumping, but also my friend Gary and myself, as well
as other young missionary visitors to the center. Between
Gary and I, he was the first to try. I think it was his first time on a
trampoline, but he made it look so natural which in turn gave me great
hopes for my accomplishments coming up. While Gary was cautiously
jumping with some of the kids in the ring they would lightly bounce as
he jumped, but when he jumped high and landed on his behind the kids
sitting on the surface would bounce 2 feet in the air. Jolly good fun if
you ask me (or the kids). Eventually it became my turn and it took but
seconds to realize that this was harder than it looked. It took a bit
before I managed to jump as high as the older kids, but eventually I
managed to take advantage of my excess weight (he he). My dreams of
doing double flip somersault was, however, quickly squashed. One of the
visiting girls from America, however, managed to show us all how jumping
was really done, ... well shy of the double flip.
With three new visitors to the center
Fred and Dianne gave
us (Terry, his fiancée and Gary) the grand tour of the Children's home.
I have obviously been there many times, and was surprised to learn that
there was yet one more room in the place that I had never seen. The "sick
room". It is a room isolated from the others and reserved to children who
may be ill and are better off in solitaire, both for their comfort, but
also isolated from the other kids so to limit chances of cross
contamination. The
amazing thing about The MERCY Center is that it is a beautiful
mansion on the grounds of an old diamond factory. The factory
part is
a simple, but large, cement block structure that is used for everything
but the actual home for the children. This includes class room, activity
room, offices, storage and computer room.
The
MERCY Center provides their own preschool as well as extracurricular
education; mainly English. For a child to learn good English in a third
world country like Thailand can potentially elevate them a couple of
nudges on the employment scale later in life. That means that the
children in The MERCY Center not only are "rescued" from a life of
demise, but might actually enter adult life well ahead of where they
might otherwise have been had it all been status quo. Though there is no
substitute for a good family life this reminds me of a phrase I heard
many years ago: "Nothing is ever so bad that it is not good for
something". In the case of The MERCY Children they might in some cases
be better off.
I was asking Dianne about the
statistics concerning the number of children that ultimately get
reunited with their parents compared to those who do not. While
the opportunity is there for most to reunite, the overall
realistic outlook is grim. Just before my visit 4 children were just reunited
and with the situation being monitored very carefully all looks good.
Out of the rest Dianne believed that only a couple have real hopes with
the rest being permanent residents. The good news is that they are where
they are will be miles ahead of their previous destiny once they grow
up.
Back to the tour .....
The other part of the center is the Children's Home. Literally a
mansion. Though a bit run down, it is an absolutely beautiful home with
hardwood flooring throughout. A great family room that features lots of room
to play and even a large (donated) flat screen TV. The boys room on the
first floor is the
largest bedroom with beds for about 20, the girls room, on the second
floor, is smaller, but
with two of the four children recently being reunited being girls, it
only 50% occupied. Also on the upstairs with the girls quarters are the sleeping
quarters for the overnight employees. The MERCY Center keeps a few small
apartments nearby for the employees that are not on shift.
All in all, and excluding the unfortunate family situation that the
children are in, one could almost envy the beautiful place they live.
More importantly, one has to take joy in the efforts continuously made
to take care of them in a family style and the opportunities they are
getting. As Terry said: "The happiness that you see in these
children bear no resemblance to what they have faced in their young
lives". That statement is not only accurate but a big compliment to all
who run, operate and support The MERCY Center. That ultimately includes
the supporters of OrphanKids.com.
In
six month or so there, however, will be some drastic changes at The
MERCY Center. The owners of the property are getting greedy and forcing
The MERCY Center to relocate. Aside from the loss of the beautiful
mansion being a loss, it is a win in most all other respects.
The MERCY Center will be building their own facility about 15
km or 10 miles
further out of town. They have, trough donations, secured funding for
two buildings (phase 1 and 2), both being for the children. Later, as
funding permit, phase 3 and 4 will include living quarters for the
employees and a community/classroom center. Finally phase 5 will be the
office/welcome center building.
The biggest gains for The MERCY Center will be:
All the children will go to the same school
and only a block away. Currently they attend three different schools
which are miles away.
The grounds will be much larger allowing for
a nearly 1000 feet (300 meter) hard surface bike/running track
around the perimeter of the property.
Although the current facility is safely
sequestered, it is still in a questionable neighborhood. The new
location will be much better in that respect.
Although the current mansion is a charm of a
place the "diamond factory" part of the place is not very desirable,
that will instantly improve once the project is complete.
The current center is licensed for a maximum
of 30 children and when the new facility is completed that may be
raised to
50 or 60 creating even more opportunities for orphan and
at-risk children.
The MERCY Center has already aligned itself with
the new school, that all the children will attend, to share resources.
This is likely to mean that the school will benefit from better English
education for all students. That along with other benefits.
While we were at the center three kids were taken
for a "ride" with the company car. They were heading for the Bangkok
Hospital, but no need to worry. The Bangkok Hospital volunteer their
services to take care of the children. This may include minor issues
from a scratch to a stitch to anything more significant.
More Tour and Random pictures from The MERCY
Center
Shopping for Food and Supplies
This fund raiser
blew all records with nearly US$5000 raised. This fortunately created
the opportunity to buy the trampoline for The MERCY Center, but more
importantly it funded the stocking of the supply room like they have
never seen before. Actually, since the policy of OrphanKids.com is to always buy the food
and supplies and see it delivered, the large sum available posed a bit
of a problem. Surely we could stock up on non-perishable foods and
supplies for months to come, but when it came to perishables we
typically could only buy for a week out, perhaps a bit more with the
centers limited freezer space.
As luck or faith would have it a major
wholesale store saw the wonderful jest and force of OrphanKids.com and
all who stood behind it and decided to donate freezer space to The MERCY
Center. That store is MACRO (similar to SAM's club or Costco in the US).
That allowed The MERCY Center to buy months and months of supply of
meat, chicken, pork and fish and put it in the Macro freezer as soon as
we checked it out. To me that is an amazing way of a big corporation to
team up with little OrphanKids.com and The MERCY Center in a true
two-way street of business. Macro surely appreciated the loads of carts
we rolled trough the register and The MERCY Center is ever grateful for
the donated freezer space..
The shopping it self could not have been
any easier. The MERCY Center knew the approximate amounts available and
provided a shopping list to Macro a couple of days before hand and their
employees did the bulk of the the shopping for us with carts ready for us to carry
through the registers. There must have been between 20 and 30 carts,
many being pallet carts.
Just before going to Macro to check out
the goodies from Marco Pastor Fred, Pastor Dianne, Gary, Lhen Lhen and
myself had lunch. Partly as an appreciation and in part to learn more
about The MERCY Center and its missions. Some of my main focuses were scholarships and adoptions which I will address
in another report. It was also a
great introduction for Gary and how he can continue to help outside of
OrphanKids. For example Gary's wife runs a cafe/restaurant and with her
bulk purchase of food she gets free "silverware" which is not quite to
the standard that they want in the restaurant, but plenty good for day-to-day use
at the center. Going forward Gary and his wife will continue to supply
silverware to The MERCY Center.
When I arrived at Macro with Pastor
Dianne, Pastor Fred and Gary were already there. Joining us at this
point were our dear friends and co-sponsors Tom and Terry as well as
Terry's fiancée.
I had hoped that we would arrive, pay the
bill and depart in a flash. Little did I realize that even though the
carts had been filled in advance by the personnel at Macro, checking out
over US$4,000 is a chore in and of itself. To make matters worse the
store had over estimated the checkout bill causing them to restore many
items when indeed we still had money extra to spend. That added about an hour
to the event, but allowed us to buy a weeks worth of fresh fruits and
vegetables along with other treats for the kids. As we did the final checkout we
managed to watch the register to the point that we only overspent by a
few hundred baht (less than US$10).
We used three registers for checkout and
on a couple of occasions the item counts were so high that we needed to
close out, pay and start again. At the end Lhen Lhen and her assistant
were doing the shopping and as soon as a cart was full I would take it
to the register, pay and cart it to the taxi. When the last cart went
through we monitored the total and stopped just as we hit the amount of
the funds available. A few treats and some sun tan lotion was all that
was left in the cart and not purchased.
If
you have read the previous reports you will already know Bo, but for
those who have not here is a short recap. On my very first trip to visit
The MERCY Center I was invited to join the group visiting the slums (chomchon)
to deliver food,
which I have also done every mission since, including this one (see
below).
Two
years ago, there
I was confronted with this little two and a half year old boy who was
all naked and as I found out when we left, his parents had abandoned
him. I was in shock, here this little boy was running around naked with
no guardians and begging for milk and food. I did all I could to put the
wheels in motions for him to be picked up and moved to The MERCY Center.
I was warned by the center this wasn't as easy as it should be. Bo
had no papers and the government claimed that he might be Cambodian and
not Thai, which in turn would mean no options for him. The MERCY Center
and in particular Lhen Lhen pulled all the strings and after a couple of
months of battle,
Bo was allowed to become a resident of the center and
another few months later documentation was final.
Bo is now the child that I sponsor and make sure
schooling is made available. The MERCY Center, in association with a
Street Kids Project, assist over 100 children in going to school. Not
only the residents of the center by many living in slums or otherwise
poor conditions where the parents cannot afford to pay the necessary
expenses associated with going to school. At present that amounts to
about USD100 per year. My day with Bo was relatively short this time which in part was because
July is a "family bonding" month at The MERCY Center which means that
few visitors are allowed and they work on social skills between the
children.
As before, Lhen Lhen joined us and we went for lunch followed by a trip
to an
arcade for Bo to have some play time.
We
also went to an agency that have been translating Bo's personal papers
from Thai to English for me so that I can include him in a testament.
We went to a nice restaurant overlooking the water for lunch. We had
hardly sat down before Bo ordered rice, scrimp and juice. Well he got more than
that. I am amazed how well mannered and polite he is, although at the age of
four and a half he also does have a naughty side, testing the waters so
to speak. I was glad Lhen Lhen was there. Always good company and she
helps translate between Bo and I.
After lunch we
went to the arcade where Bo had the opportunity to play several games,
including basket ball, a couple of shuffleboard matches with me and a
video race car game. He did quite well at the first two, but did not
quite get the hang of the race car, although he found it great fun as he
continuously crashed the car.
Video of Bo Playing Shuffle against Lars
More Pictures from a Day with Bo
Visit to the Slums (Chonchun)
Gary
and I visited the slums together with The MERCY team and two young
ladies who were visiting from Canada and the US.
As
always the day started early bagging food for approximately
90 families.
Each bag consist of about 1kg or 2lbs of rice, cooking oil, fish oil, and
noodles. This is not an all inclusive weekly supply, but intended as a
supplement. For the kids we brought a small carton of milk for each and
to celebrate the success of this fund raiser each kid received a small
bag of chips.
As is the standard route we went to three
different slums. The first being the same as I first met Bo
and
each time I go now I am so thankful that I do not have to face him
there anymore,
but it sure reminds me of the day we met and what a difference it
made in each of our lives. In that very slum there is a little girl that
not only caught my attention, but also
other supporters of OrphanKids.com. This girl has vision impairment and
was initially assumed to be retarded. After a careful examination
sponsored by The MERCY Center she was eventually found fit to attend
school and is now doing much better. I saw her again this time and
wondered why she wasn't in school. It turned out that her class mates
were visiting a water park that day and she is afraid of the water, so
she had a day off. A
supporter of OrphanKids (Rick from California) read about this girl
following a previous mission report on OrphanKids.com contacted The
MERCY Center to sponsor her. As it turned out, he was not the only one,
but as a result Rick is now the proud sponsor of a delightful young boy
that I have also met. His name is Nick.
Gary
proved to be an absolute champion visiting the slums. As a newbie he was
given the honor of handing out most of the food bags. Unlike myself who
gets a bit too humble, he really interacted with everyone and added a
level of fun to the event. The children loved him and there was quite
the interactive play between them.
At the third and last slum we visited one of the
women recipient to a food bag was not available as she had just given
birth that morning. Gary wanted to make sure she got her ration and
brought it to her "house" and set the bag just inside the doorway
As I was writing this report I was searching for
a single word that would describe the experience that this mission
brought. With so much happening and so many emotions at play I could not
do any better than settling on two words: Humbling and a Privilege. To have been part of this mission and all the experiences and emotions
that it brought was humbling. It was humbling in so many respects.
Especially concerning the children who by our measures have nothing and
by their own measures have most everything. It makes you think of what
you have, like really ... really think.
Having been the liaison between the many
supporters of this mission and the children who benefitted so much has
been an absolute privilege. I am truly honored.
I hope that my report from this mission met your expectations and that
you find your donation well spent, and I hope that you will also join me
next time which is scheduled for December 2010. If you did not donate to this mission, but was motivated by this report,
please click the email button and allow me to send you a reminder
approximately a month before the next official fundraiser starts.
Yours truly, Lars
If you would like to donate
now to the
next mission scheduled for December 2010,
please click the button to the
right
On 20 August 2010 I received the following letter
from the directors of The MERCY Center.
It was addressed to the 60+ donors who made this a huge success.
Dear Friends,
We at MERCY Centre, Thailand,
send you our heartfelt thanks on behalf of all those who
have benefited from your amazing generosity in recent years.
When Lars first came to visit and experienced the work that
MERCY does, he told us how touched he was by the
vulnerability of the poor, especially the children. One
little boy he had encountered in a slum area of the city
(whose picture you will have already seen, we're sure)
tugged at his heart strings and just wouldn't let go. That
was the beginning of his commitment to bring help in the
most practical way he could, by sharing the blessings of
friends and well wishers with the less fortunate here, and
sending personal reports for all of you, so that you may
share the joy for which you were subsequently responsible.
We understand there were more than 60 donors who responded
to make this recent trip the success that it was. That, in
this particularly stringent economic climate, you reached
out to those in even greater need, raising nearly 5,000 US$
(which converted to approximately 150,000 THB), was just
incredible. The dozens of supermarket trolleys that were
filled, the food and supplies that were delivered to those
in need, and the trampoline that was purchased for the
children of MERCY (and was an immediate hit, you will have
already seen), was jaw-dropping.
May the smiles of those whose lives you have touched remain
in your heart forever and the dream of raising a staggering
million baht, become a reality and a testimonial to all of
you who work so hard and give so generously to help us in
serving others.
Perhaps when that day arrives we may have the opportunity to
thank you in person - it would be a great day for The MERCY
Center.
Love and blessings from our Home and hearts to yours,